Well, I live in Amsterdam now. A sort of temporarily Amsterdamned =) Since my return from Africa, I have started a new project – still the same company – in Amsterdam. A great city, and actually it feels good being back among the Dutch again. Cycling through the small city streets, having a beer while looking out over the beautiful canals and having fried fish at the market square. If you come to visit, just be warned, the bikes in Amsterdam have priority, no matter what situation. And if they don’t have priority, they just take it (including me, gnagna).
February 5, 2008
Wild Africa
One month off, a return ticket, a toothbrush, and sunscreen. The perfect ingredients for a trip if you ask me. This time, I decided, it would become a Marco-tailored trip. No long beach holidays, no packed tourist destinations, and certainly not returning twice to the same spot. South Africa and Zimbabwe were my destinations and man what an experience it was. Looking back, I certainly experienced this part of Africa.
Walking around in a country where money doesn’t buy you anything. Walking next to a 10-months old lion. Swimming with an Elephant and riding a horse between zebra’s and buffalo’s. The safaris were amazing, especially when encountering wild animals really close. The victoria falls were definitaly amazing too. The smoke that thunders, and it certainly did.
Then the – bonnefooi – travelling through South Africa, Africa’s gateway. Meeting so many interesting people, living the life of a richman while working with hopeless and forgotten street kids. Also the encounter with Cape Town and surroundings was so fantastic. Thanks to the du Plessis’ family I got a taste of a South Africa way of living. Thanks Janine.
Being back in my own reality, I cherish loads of memories. And perhaps the most important lesson I learned, is to life everyday the best you can, even when it hurts, because believe me, I know I live the golden dream.
November 2, 2007
Isle of Man
As a result of tax regulations and other factors – such as work – I’ve spent the last 10 days on the Island of Man. This tiny little island between Ireland and Scotland is hidden in the Irish Sea and is a tax haven for investors. I went there to investigate the possibilities for my project.
I was actually quite anxious about this trip. Many stories I’d heard, but all of them were around sheep, small island and proud inhabitants. Somehow, I had the feeling Salisbury would look like the big apple compared to my next destination – and you know how I feel about Salisbury. The trip started well– as always – with very interesting conversations. Gary – my local taxi driver – had great stories to tell and made me actually eager to visit the isle. The person seated next to me in the airplane was a local Manx and flew back to see his family. He was an army padre and had quite some life lessons for me. He gave me some great advice on places to visit on the isle. When we alighted, he informed me about local superstitions. When I would take the bus to Douglas, I would pass a white bridge, called the fairy bridge. When I passed it, I had to greet the fairies; otherwise, it would bring me bad luck. Sitting in the bus, when suddenly hearing a harmonic, ‘hello fairies!’ I knew I passed the fairy bridge and my first impression of the isle was formed.
A very friendly colleague, Tom, who showed me around in Douglas that same night, greeted me on my arrival. The next day we took the car and drove around the isle. The padre advised me to clime the mountain Sneafell. When clear weather, I was able to see six kingdoms: Kingdom of England, Wales, Scotland, Ireland, Man and the kingdom of heaven. Unfortunately, it was clouded, but the top of the mountain provided an amazing place to test my kite. Since this year, kiting has fascinated me. I’ve bought myself a kite, but never had a chance to test it in Salisbury due to a lack of wind. Standing on top of that mountain, seeing my kite high up in the air and as far as I could see water, I felt this week was going to be other than expected. The rest of the day, we continued our tour around the island. In the evening, we’ve spent at a FRIENDS Halloween party. During the day, I worked, but I tried to make the best of it in the evenings. My hotel came with a sea view, and I often spent the evening strolling along the beach, watching the sunset. Long walks along massive cliffs, open fields – full of sheep -, lighthouses and more hidden beaches.
I literally enjoyed every single minute of my spare time there. I even indulged in Manx culture by visiting the comedy club. A marvellous evening where British humour was once again classified as being sarcasm. And every morning, driving past the fairy bridge, I just couldn’t but to greet the fairies too. Bye fairies!
July 19, 2007
Salisbury Racecourses
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Ladies night at the Salisbury racecourses – a typical British event where I could count more feathered hats then horses. Of course we placed some bets, but unfortunately, mine got second instead of first. Kerry – who joined me – had some more luck and actually placed a wining bet.
It was a great event where we had some great fun – you should see those jockeys!! Get an impression when you click on ‘photos’ in the above menu.

July 19, 2007
Van reizen krijg je vieze handen
Afgelopen zondag ben ik weer in een ijzeren buis gestapt om met 200 km/u onder het kanaal door te scheuren. Het reizen met de trein zie ik elke keer weer tegen op, maar van de andere kant vind ik het heerlijk. Het is lang, een hoop gesleep met koffers, en een stuk minder spannend dan met het vliegtuig, maar aan de andere kant is het comfortabel, ontmoet je altijd nieuwe en interessante mensen en kom je nog eens ergens.
De afgelopen jaren heb ik veel gebruik gemaakt van de TGV, Thalys and Eurostar. Het uitzicht is niet zo heel bijzonder. De reis daarentegen is altijd weer een verrassing. Je stapt op de trein ergens in een makkelijk te bereiken stadscentrum, en stapt midden in bijvoorbeeld Brussel, Amsterdam, Parijs, London of Liege uit. Parijs is altijd geweldig druk en meestal moest naar een ander station om over te stappen. Het zweet breekt me nog steeds uit als ik met een paar immens zware koffers, of met een net pak aan de Parijse metro moet induiken. Ik zorg dan ook altijd dat ik op z’n minst een uur de tijd heb, zodat ik na al dat gedoe nog even tijd heb om een heerlijk wijntje te drinken in een Frans caféetje. Brussel is ook een mooie overstap plaats. Buiten staan bankjes waar op de een of andere manier tot nu toe nog altijd de zon heeft geschenen. Brussel is daarom een stuk aangenamer om over te stappen. Daarbij, als je van Brussel naar London gaat, moet je altijd door de douane en paspoort controle. Gelukkig, toch nog een beetje ‘gezonde vliegveld spanning.’ In the UK kom je aan op London Waterloo. Met dat je op het station aankomt weet je al gelijk dat je in London bent. Wat een lappendeken van culturen, achtergronden, talen, en mensen. En dan heb je natuurlijk nog Liege. Altijd weer een probleem om een aansluiting te krijgen naar Maastricht. Maar als ik die eenmaal gevonden heb, is het slechts een kwestie van minuten voordat ik me weer helemaal thuis begin te voelen in het Limburgse land.
Aangezien het een populaire manier van reizen is – gemak en prijs – is de trein meestal altijd vol. Boek daarom tijdig! Met veel mensen op een nogal kleine ruimte is niet altijd een pretje – denk aan kinderen, mobiele telefoons, koffers en geuren – maar het levert toch altijd weer interessante gesprekken en verhalen op. Van russische uitwisselings studenten tot chinese zakenmannen, ze zijn er allemaal. Voor diegene die naar Groot Brittannie willen komen, kijk hun website eens na (http://www.eurostar.com). En als ik een tip mag meegeven, was je handen regelmatig. Op de een of andere manier worden ze altijd vies als ik met de trein reis.
July 12, 2007
Three cream teas please
The rapper has been repaired, my working shirts are ironed, I got new plants in my backyard, and the washing machine has finally been repaired. Yes, I got a visit from my parents.
On Friday I went to London to catch up with Bart and Leontien – two of my closest friends. On Friday eve we ended up in Soho – and what a crazy night it became. As it was Leontien’s first time in the UK we did the tourist route. It was great fun. Especially when we came out of the tube and saw a naked Tour d’Anglettre. We made a nice walk on South Bank, saw some live theatre, went to the Nothing Hill market, saw the Big Ben, House of Parliament, Westminster Abbey, and lots more. Saturday night we ended up in one of London’s movie theatres. Oceans 13, for the ones who haven’t seen it, don’t go – unless you loved oceans 11 and 12 so much, you just can’t resist. On Sunday, we met up with my parents who stayed over at my uncle’s house who happens to live in London. We had a fantastic lunch all together and said goodbyes to Bart and Leontien afterwards. They were going to spend another night in London while my parents and I would take the train to Salisbury.
My parents would stay till the weekend after, so we decided to hire a car and do some site seeing in the South of England. I worked until Wednesday, so we had Thursday till Sunday to travel around. The remaining days, my parents had time to explore Salisbury and its surroundings. One night, we took the car to Stonehenge. It was a beautiful sundown and although I was quite disappointed by the stones itself, the evening had a little magic in the air. As dusk was falling when we headed back to Salisbury, we stopped at Old Sarum. This is where the city of Salisbury was originally located and for 5000 years, people had lived there. During the day it is a tourist attraction, but at dusk it becomes one of the best spots in Salisbury. The hill is surrounded by wide open fields and forest. Afar you can see modern Salisbury and its beautiful cathedral while orange clouds pass by.
A cold, windy and rainy evening made us enjoy Bath – an old Roman city in England – less as expected, but nevertheless, it was a cultural encounter.
Thursday morning we equipped ourselves with a map, a fill of petrol, a kite, clean underwear, sunglasses and an umbrella. Today we were heading for the South of England. As we did not really have a plan – good weather was the main driver to undergo this trip – we decided to follow the signs ‘coast.’ Our first stop was close to Christchurch where high windy cliffs divided humans from the ocean. Somehow, breathing fresh sea breeze, always gives me an energy boost. It feels almost like the ocean it reminding me that I am still alive. After this encounter with the ocean, we headed for the New Forest. A beautiful national park with history and nature combined. Not knowing what sign to follow, we just took a random one, and before we knew it, we got stuck due to a group of wild horses who had just decided to cross the road on their slowest rate ever – a beautiful sight. After following a forest trail, before we even got it, we had passed a little village – called Bank – hidden in the middle of the forest. Due to tourists curiosity or historical myths, this village was surrounded by witchcraft and old, wrinkly women. One of the five houses was a teahouse, and I indulged my parents in the English cream teas. Witchcraft of not, I can assure you all three of us licked their fingers. The evening we spent in Poole. A beautiful harbour city which happened to celebrate .. [something] .. with live music and fireworks. This evening my parents spent their first night in a Bed and Breakfast. My mom: “He, we are having breakfast in these peoples’ living room.” My dad: “Breakfast, I’d rather call this dinner!” After the cream tea and a typical B&B, my parents had to agree that this was indeed like in the movies.
Day two we drove along the coast to visit some more harbours and little fishing villages. Again we saw some beautiful chalk cliffs where the wind and the seagulls performed a magnificent play. Our next stop was one of the most beautiful and breath taking villages we came across during our entire trip, Lyme Regis. The village was situated against a downhill mountain slope. When we found our way down to the ocean, the first sunbeam reported itself. Soon enough a ray of light felt down on us while we enjoyed on of the freshest fish meals I have ever had. We enjoyed for a couple of hours after we moved on to our next resting place – Exmouth. The day after we drove via Exeter up to Minehead. Before arriving there, we first stopped at a little picturesque village called Dulverton. We gathered our own pick nick consisting out of home made cheese and bread, fresh fruit and some other regional delicates. Later that day, we nibbled our ‘home-made’ lunch at the beach of Minehead. That afternoon, we drove back towards Salisbury. But of course we could not resist taking the forest paths again and visit a few of England’s old and forgotten castles. Saturday evening we arrived back in Salisbury and made Mr. Wong – my chines-take-away neighbour – a happy man.
Sunday morning we enjoyed a fresh breakfast with Janine – my housemate and decided to relax a little before the circus at Friends Provident would start again. We heard about a garden festival in Alderbury and drove there to spend our Sunday afternoon surrounded by flowers. When we arrived, we couldn’t stop noticing what a beautiful land house this was. Situated in the middle of nowhere, divided from the forest by the Avon river and with an enormous garden. Soon enough the rumour circulated that a bunch of foreigners arrived and it was only a matter of seconds before we made our first ‘friend.’ We learned that this was a Quaker – religious community – festival where their members were to display local and hand made products. This ranged from cards, pots, wool, books and fruit. The restfulness and serenity of this place was overwhelming. My dad got some garden advice, me and Janine were lost in some books while my mother spoke to the orchardman. Time flew by. At teatime, the Quaker ladies worked some wonders and conjured up some gorgeous cakes out of the oven. While enjoying these cakes and tea, the children gathered together to perform a play. All of them dressed up as a fairytale character – mainly cute little rabbits – and showed us why Shakespeare was British again. We could not have wished for a better British ending of this magnificent holiday.
After driving on the left side of the road, having cream tea, fish and chips at the beach, B&B and an English garden festival, my parents and I can look back at an English encounter. One we wont forget soon.
June 24, 2007
Sunday mornings
Since a week or so the summer decided to run off and leave nothing else but rain and clouds. Rain or no rain, the Brits have learned – just like the Dutch – to not be bothered, so live in Salisbury goes on like usual. And as experience showed, never forget your inner side pocket size umbrella.
This weekend has been a nice and relaxing one. Friday night I had some friends from work over. Tom, Kerry and Liz came over for dinner. After some DIY tortillas, a good bottle of wine, a great laugh and some nice conversations, we managed to turn our kitchen into a cricket field. Armed with a rolling pin and a tennis bal I got to learn the first rules of Cricket. Imagine the Netherlands when the national team has to play against Germany, or Finland when there is a national ice hockey match against Sweden, or France when playing a rugby match against Britain. Well, that kind of excitement and fanaticism comes up when the Brits talk about cricket. Next Friday I am going to watch my first proper cricket match in South Hampton – a twentytwenty for the experts. In August I will go and see the Friends Provident finals – also a pretty important game. Our kitchen-cricket is of course of a completely different calibre, but the excitement and fanaticism remained the same. We even managed to get Mr. Chinaman out of his store to come and watch us – a real life audience! On Saturday morning I went to the market, did some shopping, did some loads of washing, cleaned the house and went for a nice long walk. A beer in the evening and some live music at the coach and horses made this day complete. Today, I am going through my reading material. I created a pile of magazines as big as Old Sarum – google it -, made myself a nice sandwich, put some music on, and enjoyed the beauty and character of my house and the people surpassing in front of my window at Winchester street.

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Currently I am sitting in my bay window watching the people who forgot their inner side pocket size umbrella getting soaking wet enjoying the internet of a neighbour still not knowing how to secure their internet. Lucky me again. Tonight it is movie night. Kerry, Liz, Dyllan and me are going to watch Shrek the Third. No need to say that this weekend was a great one – again.
June 4, 2007
‘I thoughz I zaw a puzzycat’
About two weeks ago I wrote my last post on this blog. Mainly due to the lack of proper internet and a lack of time – like always. But the big news must have reached you already, I’ve moved into my new house!
Finally, after quite a hassle, Janine and me have a place on our own. Correct, I am sharing a house again with a colleague. So much more practical and above all, fun! Last week we had our house warming party and it was a blast! We had a cartoon theme which meant you had to dress up like a cartoon, share your favourite quote – mine is Tom’s from Tom & Jerry (see title), or to sing along with a theme song. Many colleagues and friends showed up and we ‘warmed’ the house properly – no need for more detail I expect.

Also, did my first visitor show up! Kirsten – from ESC Rennes – came to visit me. As it was a bank holiday, we enjoyed our long weekend pretty well. It was my first weekend in my new house so we combined the touristical attractions with second hand shops and I even managed to get some more furniture (only downside about my house is that it is unfurnished). Kirsten, it was great having you and see you in Bruxelles soon!
Work is also going ok. After ups and downs I managed – after 4 weeks, but ok – to settle down and to get used to this new experience. I guess that a (different culture + proper English + housing situation + a hugh project swap)*10 made it into a real learning experience. Now, I start really enjoying it and like going to work.
Soon more photos and more updates. For now, take care.
Cheers
May 14, 2007
I don’t like John Smit
She looked at me with a wry face, mumbled something and told me: ‘I dont like John Smit.’

Today, John – the landlord of the Bed and Breakfast I am staying in – asked me if I wanted to go and grab a pint in a local pub. He had to show me the ‘real’ English life. As John recently had a knee surgery he is walking around with crutches. His wife had a night out planned and both of us felt like we needed one too. Of we went to a local English pub called ‘the Village.’ Only a few grumpy old men sitting at the bar, music playing at the background and a I-don’t-give-a-sh*t barwoman behind the bar. Of course, first impressions can be false. As I explained John about the 0.2 litters glasses in the
Netherlands, soon enough the barwoman explained me the different beers they had, and of course soon enough we were tasting them, all of them. I literally dived into the English pub-culture where no tourist would ever set food at. The Timothy Taylor was a good one, a bit more bitter as the one before, but when we discussed the John Smit, the barwoman actually discouraged me to taste one. She looked at me with a wry face, mumbled something, and told me that she didn’t like John Smit beer. After quite some pints, different brands, different tastes, and different subjects for discussion, we decided to head back home. Well, not yet, as John – the landlord, decided to have one last pint in a pub at the corner. John, it was a fabulous evening and I wish that all of your clients of Websters Guesthouse are welcomed and made feel at home as I did. Thanks, and I will certainly keep your promise. I will bring a bottle of wine, and make sure the etiquette is right where I want it to be.. Cheers
May 11, 2007
37, Winchester Street
After 4 different Bed & Breakfasts, real estate agents that cant having me in their shop anymore, and a bunch of newspaper I finally got the last piece of the puzzle. I found myself a place to stay the next coming 6 months. As from next Wednesday I will be moving in..

